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Women's optimization consultant
Love yourself. Love your life.
I'm Courtney Cote — a Certified Conscious Parenting & Life Coach who helps women get radically clear on who they are, what they value, and what needs to change, so they can trade burnout for peace, purpose, and abundance.
1:1 coaching . conscious parenting · corporate talks
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A closing word from Courtney before you book your call.
The philosophy
Success without peace is not success.
Peace first. Performance second.
Most success stories stop at the achievement. Courtney's started after it — the year she had everything she was supposed to want and still felt lonely AF and dying inside. Real change begins with getting honest about what isn't working, before a single goal gets set.
Get honest
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Peace is the real proof of concept.
How I help
Four ways to start the work.
1:1 optimization coaching
For women ready to get radically clear on who they are, what they value, and what needs to change — so they can build a life of peace, purpose, and abundance.
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Conscious parenting
For moms who want to break the cycles they grew up with and raise grounded kids, without losing themselves in the process.
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The Mom's Circle
A standing circle of women doing the inner work together — one season, one honest conversation at a time.
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Talks & corporate workshops
For teams and audiences ready to hear the truth about burnout, and what success actually costs.
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How She Shows Up
Not another polished pep talk.
Real stories, real mistakes, and the tools that actually moved the needle — no toxic positivity required.
Courtney Cote
Founder & CEO, I LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY
Who this is for
For the woman who's ready to feel like herself again.
You've done the corporate ladder, the therapy, the burnout, and the burnout again. You know how to perform — what you're missing is peace. This isn't one more thing to manage. It's coming back to yourself, one honest conversation at a time.
What she stands for
Love.
Light.
Forgiveness.
Unconditional love.
Peace first. Performance second.
Meet Courtney Cote
Founder, I Love Me Unconditionally
Courtney Cote is a Certified Conscious Parenting & Life Coach and Women's Optimization Consultant, helping women trade burnout for peace, purpose, and abundance — rooted in gratitude, self-compassion, and unconditional love.
Book your call
Your next chapter can begin with one conversation.
Schedule a complimentary breakthrough call to talk through where you are, what isn't working, and whether coaching with Courtney is the right next step.

